Communication
Communication is the key to having a successful date with an Independent Escort, I’m a firm believer that improving the ability to express our desires increases the chances of having a pleasant date. Good communication is the best way to get to know your play partner, there is nothing shameful in openly verbalising what turns you on or off. My compromise with you is to create a safe space where we both feel comfortable to let the passion flow and enjoy ourselves freely. To get to that level of connection, I’ve to know your desires and you need to be able to communicate them in a polite form.
Before the date- Send an email introducing yourself, I care about who you are and I want to know the person who is writing to me. A short introduction about yourself, the date and time you want to meet me and your sexual desires.
This is an example of a good introduction email,
‘Hello, Daniela,
I’m Stefan H. from Hamburg. I have a business trip to Berlin next 17.06 and I would like to meet you for 3hrs. I’m staying at the Dorint Hotel Kurfürstendamm, can we meet between 20.00/21.00? I will wait for you at the bar, so we can have a drink to break the ice. I’m interested in a bit of kinky experience, I enjoy French kissing and also spanking. I don’t have a lot of experience but I would like to try some spanking. Don’t hesitate to let me know if you need more information or to make a deposit to reserve the date. look forward to meeting you!
Best,
Stefan
Here I have all the information I need to take him to the nine clouds, the email is informative and polite in equal ways.
Knowledge is power- If you want to try something new or you are just curious about certain sexual practices, there is nothing better than doing research before our date. I’m willing to enjoy everything listed in my services list. I truly enjoy every single practice on the list, but let me tell you a secret - I wasn’t born knowing how to spank you or how to stimulate your prostate. I did my research and I’m always open to asking and being asked. Do you want to practice anal activity with me? Read about how to improve the experience and make it pleasant for both of us. Google is also your friend! Porn isn’t real, you must look for articles about the topic.
Meanwhile our date- Be open about how you are feeling, tell me the way you like it or how can I increase your pleasure. Nonverbal communication is equally important, your body gives me a lot of information and you can also check on me. How relaxed is the body? Moist? Is lubricated enough for anal? All of these are signs of trust and care. Do you want to pull my hair but you’re not sure if I like it? Just ask me!
After sex- Share with me the highlights of the experience, I want to know how you feel, what else I can do to please you and also the other way around. I’ll tell you my highlights. Always new fantasies arise after sex, any game that both parties enjoy could become our next sexual adventure.
Remove shame or stigma from sex, sex is one of the most pleasant and joyful activities on the earth. Sex is meant to be fun and healthy, good sex will improve your life quality and release stress. We all feel a bit shy talking about sex while in bed, or even before and this is normal. There is nothing wrong with feeling exposed while talking about sex, eventually, you’re going to feel more confident. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Let’s talk! or email at dani.moore.berlin@gmail.com